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Bridge the Gap: Tips for Creating a Marriage Vision

Communication is, at its essence, shared understanding. So it makes sense that, if you and your spouse have different understandings of key terms related to marriage, your communication will suffer. In my guest blog for Imago Relationships North America, I share tips I often use to help couples bridge the communication gap. Click here to […]

Boundaries For Your Soul: A Christian Approach To The Family Internal Systems Model

Learn to lead the hurting parts of yourself into fellowship with God . . . because, ultimately, the best way to care for the overwhelming parts of your soul involves inviting God’s Holy Spirit to be with them. The Boundaries for Your Soul model is biblical, simple, and—best of all—it works! Here’s an overview of […]

What Are Boundaries for Your Soul?

Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your emotions? If so, you’re not alone. Let me tell you about my client, Megan*, who settled into a lovely retreat center with an ocean view. The peaceful backdrop was everything she hoped it would be. She soon discovered, though, that sitting quietly only made her more . . […]

Why I Wrote Boundaries for Your Soul

I wrote this book (and recorded a companion audiobook!) because I wanted to share a way of handling emotions that I’ve found useful, both for myself and in my counseling work with others. Most people I know are well-intended, but sometimes their emotions can get the best of them. I know it can be true […]