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Boundaries For Your Soul: A Christian Approach To The Family Internal Systems Model

By Kimberly June Miller / August 8, 2018 / Comments Off on Boundaries For Your Soul: A Christian Approach To The Family Internal Systems Model

Learn to lead the hurting parts of yourself into fellowship with God . . . because, ultimately, the best way to care for the overwhelming parts of your soul involves inviting God’s Holy Spirit to be with them. The Boundaries for Your Soul model is biblical, simple, and—best of all—it works! Here’s an overview of...

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Are Parts of Your Soul Stuck in the Past?

By Kimberly June Miller / August 2, 2018 / Comments Off on Are Parts of Your Soul Stuck in the Past?

My client, Scott*, was confused about his love life. Debra, whom he’d met at church, seemed to have all the qualities Scott had been praying for in a wife. As the couple’s relationship became more serious, though, Scott noticed a troubling thought. “I feel torn about Debra,” he said, plopping down on my office couch....

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Boundaries for Your Soul on “Hope In The Night”

By Kimberly June Miller / July 31, 2018 / Comments Off on Boundaries for Your Soul on “Hope In The Night”

Kimberly was recently interviewed about Boundaries for Your Soul on June Hunt’s late night call-in counseling broadcast, “Hope in the Night.”

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Guest Blog Post For Ann Voskamp

By Kimberly June Miller / July 16, 2018 / Comments Off on Guest Blog Post For Ann Voskamp

I was honored to guest blog for Ann Voskamp at annvoskamp.com recently, when she posted “When You Need to Know How to Hold the Overwhelming Sadness Within Your Heart.” If you’d like to know how to put a gentle boundary around your sorrow, so it can settle comfortably in one chamber of your heart, rather...

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Reflections on Recent Tragedies

By Kimberly June Miller / June 19, 2018 / Comments Off on Reflections on Recent Tragedies

Dear friend, We all were surprised recently when two celebrities took their lives within a few days of each other: Kate Spade, one of the world’s best-dressed women, and Anthony Bourdain, who ate delicious food for a living. How do we make sense of such tragedies? Generally speaking, one way to imagine self-harming tendencies is...

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What Are Boundaries for Your Soul?

By Kimberly June Miller / May 31, 2018 / Comments Off on What Are Boundaries for Your Soul?

Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your emotions? If so, you’re not alone. Let me tell you about my client, Megan*, who settled into a lovely retreat center with an ocean view. The peaceful backdrop was everything she hoped it would be. She soon discovered, though, that sitting quietly only made her more . ....

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Why I Wrote Boundaries for Your Soul

By Kimberly June Miller / May 18, 2018 / Comments Off on Why I Wrote Boundaries for Your Soul

I wrote this book (and recorded a companion audiobook!) because I wanted to share a way of handling emotions that I’ve found useful, both for myself and in my counseling work with others. Most people I know are well-intended, but sometimes their emotions can get the best of them. I know it can be true...

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Help! It Seems Like We’re Speaking Different Languages!

By Kimberly June Miller / March 6, 2018 / Comments Off on Help! It Seems Like We’re Speaking Different Languages!

Dear Kim, How do we both get what we want out of our marriage when key terms such as love, care, support, and communication are defined very differently between spouses? It often seems like we’re exchanging with different currencies with differing rates. Many thanks, Speaking Different Languages   Dear Languages, Communication is, at its essence,...

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